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I am going to be a first time grandma, in July and again in September. I am very excited but would like to hear from you on "grandma advice". If you are not a grandma, please give me advice on what you think a grandma should be. Let's have fun with this and don't forget to visit all the other blogs included on this tour. Thanks in advance for all your comments and advice!
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I am not a grandma, but I think my advice to you is to be there a 100% when you are around your grandchild.
ReplyDeleteI have 3 Grandsons now. Just love them, enjoy them and never offer advice to their parents if you want to keep coming around. So far that's worked for me.
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma but my sister has 7 grandchildren. This is what I know: receiving blankets and burp cloths are always welcome. That and lots of babysitting.
ReplyDeleteI have two grandkids. Being a grandmother is more fun than being a parent. All the play and less of the worry.
ReplyDeleteI am daycare Grandma for the 2 year old and I love seeing her in the morning, and to be honest, I love seeing her go home in the evening.
I'm not a grandma yet but my advice would be to have fun together!!
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma yet but I enjoyed that my Mam had time with our kiddos. They even made holiday trips (and day trips) with them and the kids still talk about these memories.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a grandma, still hoping, but my advice would be deep breaths and lots of laughter, that should get you through anything.
ReplyDeleteI'm a grammy twice over. My best advice is to wait until advice is asked for before giving it. And enjoy every moment!
ReplyDeleteI'm a long ways from being a grandma--but as a mother my advice is to be supportive, but don't tell your kids what to do unless they ask!
ReplyDeleteGrandma, you're allowed to permit your grandchildren to do things you would never have allowed your children to do; you're allowed to spoil them rotten! Actually I find that very difficult myself; I guess old habits die hard! But I say "No!" to them much less than I did to their parents!
ReplyDeleteBeing a grandma is a great blessing! Just enjoy.
ReplyDeleteNo experience here...yet! I would say keep your mouth shut (unless asked) and give great presents!
ReplyDeleteI love being a grandma! Just be yourself and give lots of hugs and kisses. Thanks for a chance to win.
ReplyDeleteI save up all the stickers that come in the mail with mailing labels from charities, etc., as well as the free notepads and other office-y things and send them to my granddaughter. She's loved to "play office" since she was about 3. Being a long-distance grandma isn't as much fun, but Skype and Facetime help a lot.
ReplyDeleteOh, I love being a Grandma. I'm in NC and they are in AZ, but that doesn't stop me from loving them. We Skype, I fly out to get them and bring them back to NC, then take them home again. Just love them, and let them feel the love and the joy they bring to your life. There is nothing better.
ReplyDeleteI have four grandsons and one granddaughter. I have two more grandsons on the way. One in August and one in September. I was hoping for another granddaughter but I am happy with the boys too. I love to cuddle with them and try to take special interest in whatever it is that they are interested in. It gives you special time and they love that you like what they like. They each have a very special place in my heart. Making them quilts are fun too.Thanks for the chance to win. Lisa
ReplyDeletethis week has been fun for grandmothers and non-grandmothers alike
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your grandchildren as much as you can. Thanks for the chance to win.
ReplyDeleteNot a grandma, but would just say to enjoy them while they are little. As you know children grow up way too fast.
ReplyDeleteI am a grandma of 9 and great grandmother to 4. I tend to spoil them rotten then send them home to their parents. Not really. I play with all the great grand children and we have art and sewing classes even though they are small. We have a lot of fun together.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on being chosen for the magazine and for becoming a grandma soon! I think it's important for a grandma to be loving and warm. cknapp3626@sbcglobal.net
ReplyDeleteI have 5 beautiful grandchildren and the best advice I can give is never miss a chance to give them a big hug and tell them how much you love them.
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Congratulations on becoming a Grandma!! I will also be a first time grandma this Nov and I am so excited!! I am already making some fun projects for baby!!
ReplyDeleteLove them like crazy... mine are 19,15,and 13.. They call and text me weekly, we are best buds I found something in common with each.. best kids in the world..
ReplyDeleteThanks for the chance to win.. drhodes9@cox.net
Never take love for granted be it kids or grandkids. Thanks for for the chance to win.
ReplyDeleteI have five grandsons under 10 who I call The Monkey Boys, mainly because they climb on anything and everything! Being a grandma is the best thing ever, so just relax and enjoy it. Spoiling them is a must! Thanks for the chance to win!
ReplyDeleteGrandmothers are fun -- it is the very best experience. Thank you for the prizes. bmccoll7#aol.com
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma, but I would say just have fun playing with them! ch.atwell@sbcglobal.net
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma, but I would say just have fun playing with them! ch.atwell@sbcglobal.net
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma, but I would say just have fun playing with them! ch.atwell@sbcglobal.net
ReplyDeleteBeing Grandma: learn not to criticize the mom, and just enjoy the kids as much as possible. Be grateful you are included in their lives. Not all grandmas get to be part of it.
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma, but I would say just have fun playing with them! ch.atwell@sbcglobal.net
ReplyDeleteOh I am not a Grandmother, but I think you should just enjoy and love them!
ReplyDeleteI'm not a grandma but stay involved and build that bond early. It will be there forever
ReplyDeleteHappy Mother's Day for Sunday. (Happy Grandmother-to-be day as well!) Enjoy them and see them as often as possible.
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Congrats on impending grandma hood. I became one this time last year. I just make sure she see my face at least once a week, thanks to skype and facetime, she lives in RI and I live in Ga. I visit when i can
ReplyDeleteCongratulations!! So fun that they will have a cousin close to their age. Just relax and have fun. My granddaughters are 2 and 4, and we sing and dance and play. It's a good excuse to act like a kid again. They've also had plenty of hands-on with fabric. I think I have them hooked!
ReplyDeleteKisses and hugs!
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Congrats on your impending grandma-hood. My grandmas were kind, loving but firm. They've been gone for a long time now, but your question brought up wonderful memories. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteBe involved and spend quality time with grandchild. Make memories that will last. Love your block! Congratulations on having your block in the magazine! blaukat@hickorytech.net
ReplyDeleteBeing a Gramma is one of the most exciting times of my life. Love my two grands and always have them around, spent their younger years doing all kinds of activities with them. Enjoy every day and every minute .
ReplyDeletetwice! good for you.. shower them with love but not overly generous with the material things..
ReplyDeleteBeing a grandma is the best thing in the world! Enjoy every minute of it!
ReplyDeleteBeth
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Just enjoy them and give them lots of love because they will be going back to Mom. Thank you for being a part of the QM's 100 Blocks, Volume 11 and the chance to win a copy of that priceless magazine or any of your quilting patterns. Happy Mother's Day.
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Congratulations! I am not a grandma, but I would advise you to be supportive of the parents and enjoy every second of your time together!
ReplyDeleteGive lots of love, gently give advise (very gently lol) hold them while you can and let them be kids!
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Grandma is for fun! Enjoy the kids, be one yourself.
ReplyDeleteI love being a grandma. Love, support them and spoil them a bit.
ReplyDeleteMake fun memories.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all congrats on your block in the magazine & your two exciting family additions coming! I am not a grandma, but think you should aim for being supportive (both to the new babies & new parents!) and loving, as well as spoiling them a bit, especially with some handmade gifts that only grandma could make!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I love my sweet little man to the moon and back. He will be 3 in July and my daughter invited me to be present at his birth which was very special. Don't be afraid to act silly, play and just enjoy every minute. Thanks for the opportunity to win. I just started to follow your blog via 2bquilting247 at hotmail.ca.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I can only give advice from a grandchild perspective as I will never be a grandma. :-( Love, Unconditional love, is wonderful, Just be there for them if they need you. My Gram was there for me in the toughest times of my life.
ReplyDeleteI don't have any grandbabies yet but I DO KNOW that every baby/child NEEDS a quilt!!
ReplyDeleteJust hold those babies and give lots of love and kisses. Remember what happens at grandma's stays at grandma's. Take lots of pictures, whether it be the first or the fifth. Never enough pictures. poladydwd(at)yahoo(dot)com
ReplyDeletePray that they grow into loving caring human beings that are a blessing to others.
ReplyDeleteI'm Grammy to two grand daughters and 2 grandsons so far. The best advice I would give is to love and spoil them as much as possible without alienating their parents (you will get more opportunities that way).
ReplyDeleteOh how wonderful for you - Congratulations! My first 2 grandbabies (I have 7 now) were born 6 days apart, it seems like just yesterday - they'll be graduating from high school this year and off to college! Soooooo - you have to squeeeeeeeeeze them and love love love them and play with them 'cause the time goes by so quickly that they won't be babies for very long! I wish you so much joy and happiness with this new experience - there's none like it!! Enjoy it to the moon and back!!! :)
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Oh - I almost forgot! Congrats on being published and thanks for the chance to win ;)
I have 2 granddaughters & 2 grandsons. We have sung the song "You Are My Sunshine" since day one. Now at the ages of 16, 11, & 10,we love to sing it and have a good time. They are never too old to have fun with Grandma. Make the most of each & every visit, they grow up much too fast.
ReplyDeleteCongrats for your granbabies!!!!, I'm not even a mom, but I could make to both their first and special quilt..., as well show them your love for quilting, and teach them, no matter the gender, it's a special memory they will remind forever!!!!
ReplyDeleteROOTS and WINGS: They've been given roots to grow - now "let" them flex their wings and watch them FLY! Enjoy the view G-ma!
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ReplyDeleteWhat a block! It reminds me of Snail Trails block. Love the colors. Grandmotherhood is just wonderful! We just had our 3rd grandchild and are going next month to visit her in Italy. What fun that will be. I only wish they were closer so we could see her more often. Lots of pictures help when they are so far away. Enjoy each wet kiss...they are just precious!
My grandma always had cookies and a listening ear. Best wishes on a happy healthy baby.
ReplyDeleteFun block!
ReplyDeletecongrats on the new grandbaby :-)
I would encourage you to live God BIG in your own life and share God's love with them each day from the very beginning. Have a wonderful time!
Congratulations! Just love them and spoil them.
ReplyDeleteOh my gosh!! You are going to love being a grandma. I have 8 grandsons from 19 to 6. They are all so different. My advice, never give up a chance to babysit. Give those parents a break. Love em, spoil em cos that's what grannies do.
ReplyDeleteIt really depends on what the kid wants Grandma to be.
ReplyDeleteGrandmas always have fun ideas that mom wouldn't really want to do herself :) - from a mom
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! Grandmas get all the fun and none of the headaches...right? Grandmas tend to spoil the grand kids and let them do things that the parents don't approve of. Or so I hear.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I have 8 grandchildren and every one of them is unique. Hold them, hug them, have fun with them. If they live far away, make sure they have some pictures of you so they will remember who you are. Talk on the phone with them...sometimes the conversations are a little tricky, but fun none the less.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a grandma, but what I loved best about both of mine were how much fun they were to be with and how much attention they lavished on me. Thanks for the chance to win!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on block in magazine and 2 grandbabies.
ReplyDeleteBe loving and caring, someone the can talk to, be firm, don't spoil. Just love them, spend time with them, teach them some of the old ways, tell them the family stories. Enjoy the new phase of your life. 24Tangent@gmail.com
Grandkids are the best! Hope they live close. Just lots of hugs love and spoiling! Enjoy! maryann.lohmann@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteGrandma's are wonderful, I am not one yet but I loved my Grandma. She was a wonderful lady, I use to hang out with her in her sewing room and help her and play with all her notions while she sewed. I always got treats and she made the best banana pancakes for breakfast.
ReplyDeleteLove on that grandbaby like crazy. My best memories are of my grandmas..I miss them so much even today!
ReplyDeleteBuy quality picture books for your grandchildren and read to them every chance you get.
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma yet our oldest is getting married May 31st , 2015 and our youngest does not plan on ever getting married. so we will see what happens. but my mom loved all of her grandbabies she always had time for them and let them know that she loved them for who they were unconditionally but she was grandma and there was no playing around with rules and such for this she was respected and loved in turn. she has been gone now for 3 years and all the grandkids still love her bunches, no one talks bad about grandma around them. she instilled in her grandbabies respect, love for others and the love of Jesus
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I am not a grandma yet but hopeful. If it doesn't happen I'm ok with that. My advice would be don't be afraid to set boundaries and have your own set of rules early on for your grandchildren. Children learn from all different sources and will respect accordingly. Most of all have fun!
ReplyDeleteCongrats on becoming a Grandma, it is amazing how much love you will feel for those little ones. I am just a new Grandma and am learning all about it. I plan to play, do crafts, garden, and go exploring etc when she is older. Thanks for the giveaway of your patterns, and love QM 100 blocks
ReplyDeleteTake every opportunity you get to make memories with them. It is amazing what little things they keep as a memory
ReplyDeleteI will never be a grandma, but I enjoyed being a grand-daughter very much. Congratulations! I'm sure your do fine.
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How exciting to be a first time Grandma! I don't have any grandchildren {yet!}, but one of the things I loved to do with my Grandma was going out to lunch with her one-to-one. It always made me feel so special :o) Thank you so much for hosting an opportunity to win a Volume 11 issue!
ReplyDeleteI'm not a grandma and probably never will be but using my dear sister as the example of a perfect grandma, I would say first unconditional love. No matter what happens, love them anyway and let them know it! Also, make sure you're giving them your undivided attention. At home, they probably won't be getting it as much especially if there are going to be more siblings in the future and if both parents work. Even if you sit and do nothing. I spend time with my grown son a lot and I'll just watch him play video games. I've learned so much about him through that activity... how he problem solves and what catches his eye and how fast he can read and type. LOL I wish I had done that as he was growing up. I tried a few times but with work, I never had the time that I have now. Time and love are probably two of the most important things a person can do for another person whether it be on the phone, in a text, email, or in person. Stay in touch with your grandchildren as they get older and keep up to date on the latest things... you won't regret it! Plus, it's always great to learn something new!! LOL Enjoy!!!
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Not a grandma yet, but my children have two wonderful grandmothers who support them in all of their varied activites. Also, I always love when they give my children books AND read to them, it encourages a love of reading.
ReplyDeleteBeing a grandma is the greatest. I have four grandchildren and love them to bits.
ReplyDeleteLots of love and cuddles.
ReplyDeleteBeing a grandma is so wonderful. I would keep a journal of their fun sayings. When I was with my granddaughter, I would send a note home with her about the funny things she said or did. I wish I had written them for myself too.
ReplyDeleteSee them as often as you can and give them lot of hugs.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a grandma but I saw both my grandmothers frequently when I was a kid. Other than loving them like crazy, I think spending time with them is a wonderful thing grandmas can do for grandchildren. And of course making quilts for them is awesome too!
ReplyDeleteI am a grandma to four, 3 girls and one lone boy. the best advice now that they are older is be available to listen whenever they feel the need to talk. My oldest is now 13 and having a close relationship allows her to feel comfortable telling me things she won't tell her parents! Now passing the girls some of my craft knowledge but hope grandson will at least learn to sew on a button. ale3002000@yahoo.com
ReplyDeleteSpoil them as much as you can....let your kids do the parenting (it will infuriate them that you break every rule you enforced when they were growing up LOL). Respect your kids choices in how they parent....as different from yours as they may be, as long as they are safe. Keep in contact with your grandkids, not just your kids. When they are old enough, as to speak to them when you call. Mail them cards & packages, just because. Read to them. Play with them. Cuddle with them. Love them forever. Spend time with them. Be patient with them. Teach them, LISTEN to them. Watch them discover the world on their own terms, feel free to provide any opportunity to expose them to new things. OFFER to take them, don't just take them when asked. When you are with them, be WITH them, not preoccupied with something else. When making pie....always have a little extra crust that you can make a cinnamon/sugar twist with, and when making cookies, always leave a few chips in the bag (thank you Grandma Smith, it wasn't unnoticed). No matter how important the project, let them help...you can always undo it if need be, but they will remember that forever! (My grandmother used to decorate wedding cakes, and she'd let us help her make the roses...I'm pretty sure those never saw the light of day, but we all felt a million feet tall and remember it 40 years later...). Hug and kiss them, don't ever miss an opportunity to spend time with them. The laundry, shopping and quilting can all wait.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on becoming a grandma! My advice is to love them unconditionally and have fun doing things together.
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on being a grandma!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! I have 4 little granddaughters and the are so much fun. My advice is to spend as much time with them as often as possible.
ReplyDeleteI'm a recent first-time grandma. Spoil them, but also make sure you have as many traditions as you can share with them.
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma, but the times I remember best with my grandmas are the simple things, like playing games and making cookies.
ReplyDeleteI think Karyn Ashly-Smith said it all. Maybe she will adopt me! lol
ReplyDeleteOh,boy...my 14th grandbaby is due next month. Love them and spend as much time with them as you can. Teach them good values and give them good roots to grow from.
ReplyDeleteSpoil them rotten!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteI'm not a grandma yet, but a grandma gives lots of love and hugs.
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Be willing to listen and not be judgemental. congrats. pjrquilter at msn dot com
ReplyDeleteI am the grandma of 10. I hope your grandchild is closer to you than ours have been. The closest was a 12 hr. drive and the others were 6 days drive. Just be loving and encouraging, and only offer advise when asked for it.
ReplyDeleteTeach them something special...my grandmother taught me how to bake bread...Every time I make it I can feel her by my side.
ReplyDeleteI love being a grandma, we learn much more as we get older and you just enjoy him or her, give them lots of love and see the world again, through their eyes. For me it is teaching him about the outdoors, since his parents are more indoor types and he loves to go exploring with grandma.
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Not a grandma yet, but I would say just spend time with the grandkids. We would stay at our grandparents' house for a few days at a time and just spend time with them. We'd bake cookies, work in the garden, even clean house. Those are the best memories!
ReplyDeleteI would say, just relax and enjoy them--they grow up fast!
ReplyDeleteLet them play in the kitchen and in the sewing room with you! Whatever you teach them, whenever they do it in the future, they will be reminded of you and the time they got to spend with you! I remember my grandmother used to make cutout Christmas cookies and gingerbread men and send them to us every Christmas...every time I see/make/eat one, I think of her and the special way she showed her love for us!!
ReplyDeleteRead to your grandchildren, even when they are babies! They love to hear your voice and they will also learn to love books! Get out board books and let them chew on the corners...it gets books into their hands!
ReplyDeleteA grandma is the one that you can always go to with anything! Comfort and treats!
ReplyDeleteLet the parents be the disciplinarians. You be the fun one!
ReplyDeleteBe there for your kids. Don't be pushy. Ask them how they would like you to help them as they get used to taking care of a newborn. Love them, show them, teach not criticize. I always wanted to know lots of ways that other parents do things, and then I can figure out what works best for me.
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Read, give them books, teach them to love reading
ReplyDeleteI am not a grandma but my advice would be to build a relationship with your grandkids so they are comfortable talking to you about anything. As they get older tlhey will want to spend time with you if they know that you are there for them and want to be with them. Congratulations on becoming a grandmother!
ReplyDeleteLove & spoil them!
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Give them books and read to them. Sew for them. I have made an assortment of lightweight flannel blankets for my two granddaughters as well as some quilts, pillowcases, tote bags, and headbands. I enjoy making them things and they enjoy receiving pretty gifts. I give them things at random times rather than wait for birthdays or holidays. -- soparkaveataoldotcom
ReplyDeleteEnjoy every minute!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations! Granddaughter are the best! Just remember , you are not the parent. This is the time to make memories with them and spoil a little.
ReplyDeleteHow exciting to be a grandma! I am not one yet, but I am looking forward to it. I already have been making doll clothes, and planning for kid quilts.
ReplyDeleteI think grandmas should tell you how awesome you are and give lots of hugs!
ReplyDeletejodylovering@cox.net
Grandmas should be cuddly & make quilts!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on being a first time grandmom. I have three grandkids. You are going to fall deeply in love with them the minute you see them. Just love,spoil, and most of all enjoy them.
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I have three young grandsons and now a granddaughter. My advice is be sure to get your picture taken with each child every time you see them. Life goes by too fast so cherish each moment.
ReplyDeleteI just became a first-time grandma. just have lots of fun. They seem to grow faster than your own kids.
ReplyDeleteYou are lucky to have two close in age; try to make sure they see each other and get along.
ReplyDeleteBe ready to intercede on their behalf always. Be their advocate, let them know you are there for them.
I often remind my kids that grandkids are why I had them!
It is hard to keep a delicate balance but work at it. The grand is top priority; your chlid is grown.
I have 7 kids, 6 grands so far and all know beyond a doubt that I LOVE them.
It is so much fun with each. I love time with each one although they are all very different as your relationships with them will be.
Be there for them, teach what you can, listen to them, play! Make it fun for them and comfortable. No fear!
Blessings
I have 4 grandkids, every Christmas they each get a special decoration as park of their presents. They also have a storage box to keep them in. I date the decorations, so later they can look back and see how their likes have changed over the years,
ReplyDeleteI am not a Grandma, but my advice would be to just be there for them no matter what, whether it be good or bad. They need to know that you love them unconditionally.
ReplyDeleteI'm not a grandma, but will tell you that the most fun was when my grandma would do things with me that my mom didn't do. It was just the two of us!! Create your own memories!!
ReplyDeleteMy grandson is far away so I don't really get to be a granny, except by mail. So i send him books so he'll know that i'm always thinking about him.
ReplyDelete(get a tongue guard soyou can bite your tongue on unsolicited advice - that's what I'll need!). Otherwise, just enjoy every minute, takes lots of pictures of the baby with the parents (since they can't take the pictures themselves). Maybe even keep a private baby book of the baby's progress, since the mom may be so busy that she'll forget to record things, and it would be a nice surprise for her at baby's first birthday!
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